How do you initiate morning sex with a man? We are often already naked and cuddling and kiss but I don’t know how to initiate without just moving my hands to his crotch area which often feels a bit wrong if we are tired. Normally strong kissing is enough, but we don’t often want to do that in the morning or it doesn’t lead to anything.
It’s easier for men, boobs are an in between which can be seen as cuddling or progress things depending on the outcome.
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directness from a woman is HOT. I would imagine anything would work lol
What other erroneous zone does your partner have other than his penis? Nipples? Neck? Crook of the elbow? Try one of those to get things started.
I second being direct, extremely hot to me👍🏻 Being married 17 years and having to initiate everything, I WISH she would just take control and attack me for once lol, grab it soft and start going to town! 🤣
If you are already kissing then keep kissing down his neck and chest and waist and eventually start giving him a blow job and once he’s hard then he is pretty much ready. Also touch and stroking his body all over lead to the thighs and then stroking his dick nearby. Again if he’s hard he will want to take action and start penetrating you. You can also mount him cowgirl style and go for it too.
If he’s Into you …kissing all over , touch him, get on top of him , grab and lead his hands…we men are fairly easy creatures!!
You can just lightly stroke him and touch him all over. Just tracing patterns on his skin, gliding your nails lightly over his back, touching his front, etc. You can even tease him by getting close to his crotch but not actually touching him there, it will get his mind thinking. You’ll notice if he’s into more or not.
Literally just start sucking it
Grab that stick shift girl and drive it to town. Thats what you do.
if i want morning sex i just start kissing his neck and go down u know,usually goes from there
If you don’t feel comfortable being direct push your bum into his crotch whilst he is spooning you.
So others have said what I was going to about other places. I’d also note that sometimes a boobies rub is just that. It’s comforting.
More importantly, why does it feel wrong? It’s not wrong to have wandering hands unless you’ve been told not to. It’s better to be communicating neither physically or verbally than to just sit on your wants.
One of the best things to me is the sleepy morning loving. Sleepy BJ, sleepy sex, floppy hands fumbling around. Wish I had words.
>moving my hands to his crotch area which often feels a bit wrong
Oh yes… yes.. Wait. What? no? Where’d you go?
I like to rub on my partner, stroking his chest down to just about his area but not touching it for a bit. By the time I do he is so turned on that he is already hard but the time I finally touch him.
This morning I got out of bed and put on my underwear to get ready for the day. My wife reached out and touched my dick and said “boop”. 30min later I was trying to get ready again.
Why don’t you ask your partner? As them what would let them know you wanted sex in the morning. Or ask them if they want sex when you have one of those mornings.
My man likes it when I start by running my hands all over his body.
Like women, they want to be appreciated and not just go for the good stuff.
So I start lightly moving my fingertips from his inside ankle up his inner leg to the back of his knee to near his crotch then down to his other ankle and back up on the outside to his hip to the crease where his legs meet his manbits. Circle under his package lightly touching his balls. Circle around them, maybe cup them. Then back to the crease of the other leg up to the outside of his torso to his armpit. Spend some time appreciating his chest area and down the middle to circle his belly button. Then down to lightly palm his penis and balls. Not actually rubbing them but lightly go over them with your open hand.
Continue the appreciation until yall are ready for the good stuff
If you are spooning, you can aggressively grind your ass against his dick.
Once he’s got a boner and it’s between your ass cheeks and/or rubbing against your pussy which is rapidly becoming wetter as you get more aroused yourself, well, sex is a pretty natural result.
You can also just use your words.
What’s the old joke?
Honey if you want to make love in the morning, just reach down and give my cock a tug.
If you don’t, reach down and give it twenty tugs.
Speak words out loud with your mouth. “wanna mess around?” Communicate. I am begging y’all to just talk to your romantic and sexual partners.
My ex used to wake me up with a blow job. I’m literally sleeping and she would suck my dick erect. Sometimes I wake up quite fast, sometimes I only wake up when she is halfway fucking me. It’s the best feeling ever cos before I wake up, I actually have dreams that I’m having sex. It’s like my brain is creating dreams in response to the sensations from my dick
Made me laugh cause i “boop” my wife all the time 🤣
Oh man, I wake up with morning wood every day and always want to have sex. Pretty much anything would work for me.
One time I woke up to my girlfriend going down on me, which was the best feeling of my life.
Really depends on the person
Whether they want anything at all as well
I kiss their neck while big spooning them, touching all over and get em hot and bothered.. then just bam, can go down on them if they seem really in the mood
If this guy doesn’t like things so quick, in the morning, etc.. you gotta respect his boundaries on that as well
I just lay as the little spoon and rub my butt on his dick
Ask.
Hello darling ,
I say would one like to have sexual intercourse this morning ?.
Oh rather ..
Jolly good let’s get right too it then without delay.
Ps I’m British and we all talk like this .
Use his hands to guide them to your boobs! If that’s a signal for him to you, you can manipulate his fingers to start playing/pinching as a queue…win win win…boobs. I love reading through these answers 🥰
You know what does it for me, is we are usually spooning. And my boner is between her butt cheeks. She just backs that thang up, that’s all I need to take her to pound town.
Talk to him about his limits, what he like and comfortable with so you know what you’re allowed to do to him when the situation arises again (pun intended 😂).
Most men love to be dominated occasionally, or in others words love when woman “initiate or take control”.
It’s extremely fun to wake a man up with a blowjob or just hoppin on him at 2 am when you can’t sleep. Never waste a good hard on. haha
I wake up my husband every day with a blowjob.
Grab his hand and put it on your crotch area, works every time lol
For me to initiate, I put his hands on my boobs.
For him to initiate, he puts his hands on my boobs.
We are simple folks, guided by hands on boobs.
Grab his cock. That’s literally it. We are already hard from morning wood. No guessing necessary.
My wife usually says something like “Hey, the kids are still asleep! Come fuck me!”. I usually say something a little more discreet. But it all works for me!
I get up and pee, go back to bed with my head first under the sheets. It only takes a second for me to find what I want OR for him to turn over for me
Sometimes I am very direct. Other times, I stare at him while he’s sleeping and eventually he wakes up and then he’s got some idea.
If you’re the little spoon, just start wiggling your bum on his cock, he’ll get the message and horny too
good point on the boobs
a hand on the leg or stomach close enough to the crotch area should be enough
or try the boop thing
Lick his neck.
Kiss and make your way down his chest.
Pull at him while kissing.
Softly moan while you’re kissing.
Those are all actions…
You can also communicate. Dirty talk is bound to get him ready to go.