Ok so I (female) have been with the same partner (male) for about 6 months now and he’s a bit on the bigger side. Yesterday we had sex (a bit rougher too) before going to sleep and as we were about to fall asleep at around midnight my lower stomach started hurting, I’m talking like, sharp pains.
This has never happened to me before and we have rougher sex very often, however I’m on the tighter side because of some medical issues (mild case of vaginismus because of sexual trauma but it’s better now) and I do feel some discomfort if he inserts himself inside me fully, I do not necessarily mind it though. (Btw we have great communication regarding sex and he’s someone who listens to me carefully.)
I tried to fall asleep and kept waking up, I feel like I haven’t slept much… I woke up a bit before 6am and my abdomen was still hurting. I’m thinking he might’ve bruised my cervix/uterus(?) but also I feel a tad gassy? Like when you want to fart but only manage to get a bubble or two in your stomach and it doesn’t want to fully get out.
My boyfriend brought me a hot water bottle and it’s a tiny bit better but that’s about it…
Has anyone experienced this before? What can I do to help myself? Thank you!
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I think he hit your cervix pretty hard. Should be getting better within a day.