So two weeks ago I went out with this really cute, smart, successful woman. We had a great date and we even talked about seeing each other again. The next day I went to my brothers who I didn’t know had covid and he gave me it. I was so sick and I had to isolate in a hotel room for 5 days. I’m still recovering but feel a lot better. Anyway when I was talking to this girl she only replied like once every 24 hours and I honestly hate that. I’m not saying I need someone to reply to me in minutes every time but if you’re genuinely interested you should be able to squeeze in more than one reply a day.
Since I was sick I didn’t even bother to humor this. I haven’t spoken to her in over a week now but I’m wondering if it’s a lost cause to try and start over with her.
What is your opinion?
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Its probably a lost cause but it doesn’t hurt to try again. Maybe she just had a busy week. If you really liked her then its worth another try.
If she knew you had covid and was acting this way, then don’t bother. She doesn’t seem interested. If she was interested, she would have been texting you frequently asking how you were doing.
I was in that situation like a week ago. We dated for about a month but the communication was awful and I had to let her know I couldn’t do it anymore
Edit: for me it was realizing that her delaying her responses did actually feel like I wasn’t being respected/worthy of her time. Once I cut ties I felt better about myself! It was my first low maintenance relationship and it’ll probably be my last. I’m too traditional i guess..