I want to do something for my boyfriend to help him have more fun and feel more secure in himself sexually. A suggestion I got was to explore his kinks. He’s told me before that the “sexy female teacher” trope is his biggest fantasy, so I want to try setting up a fun role-play scenario!
I’m very open sexually, but have never role-played. Love the idea of getting into character and dressing the part, but I’m thinking there’s a lot more to it than that. (Unless I’m just overthinking it)
Any experienced folks have advice for getting over the potential initial awkwardness? Or just general set up?
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It’s supposed to be fun. And role playing is fun
I haven’t done that much RP in bed, but I can say that it’s like dancing: if you only half-commit and let your awkward feeling show, it will ruin it, but if you embrace it and take mistakes in stride, then you got the basics. Beyond that, maybe ask if there’s a specific scenario he’d like to explore, or to show you a porn video of a type of scene he’d like to RP to give you a feel for what to do and how to talk.
I would ask him what about the teacher fantasy does it for him. Does he fantasize about a certain scenario? Is it her being stern? Is she the aggressor or is he? Knowing why he finds it sexy could help with how you act it out for him. If it’s just the visual, you could always surprise him with the outfit without role-play. I love role-playing, the more you try it the more natural it will feel. I think it’s great you want to do this for him. Good luck and have fun!