Inexperience + never had an orgasm = low sex drive?

I’m a 32(F) who would consider myself inexperienced when it comes to sex. I’ve been with my husband 6 years but before that I had 3 other sexual partners, however I only had ‘vanilla’ sex with them and never really experimented. I’ve never had an orgasm with any of my partners but I’m able to have a clit orgasm in one specific position when I masturbate.

I’m curious if anyone in a similar situation found a change in their sex drive after achieving their first orgasm with a partner?

I’m also curious if there could be any correlation between my inexperience and low sex drive? I have never really been a sexual person so there hasn’t been a major change in my sex drive, but the lack of interest in sex is causing some friction with my husband.