Did something traumatic happen in your marriage that you both don’t share physical intimacy or is your spouse no longer interested in the physical (sexual) part of you anymore?

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  1. Ngl it’ll be hard to believe anyone saying they’re in a fruitful, fulfilling, loving relationship but hadn’t had sex with their SO for the past 5+ yrs. That’s tough imo.

  2. Honest here, health issues. Our child was born 13 odd yrs ago. We moved a couple of times for my work, finally got to a place we like and a job, both well paid and stable. Then I ended up in a stroke ward.

    I have a chronic illness that comes with chronic pain. It’s been over 11 years now. We are actually happy and close. Do I miss sex? Sometimes, but I wouldn’t change anything about our life now, except the health. I wish I could work, or at least she could go out and work. But she is my carer. She hasn’t up and left me because we can’t have sex. She also has had health issues. But we are a single force.

    I support her through her and she with mine. I love her and she me. Our relationship isn’t about sex.

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