We were together for almost 2 years now and we both are studying for our biggest exam in our life at the end of this year. When we got together she and i both agreed we will put the exams first and then the relationship. Exam is due November month and I told my girlfriend in june month I can’t spend time with her very much as before. She was okay with that as I thought. But today she said I was not intimate with her much and She can’t see a future with me as a couple. I understand that I was busy with studying but I thought she’s studying as I am and it will not be a problem. I always message to her morning and night. I know now that i made a mistake. I wanna get back with her but she said she was thinking about this for a month and after she said that I don’t think I will win her back. I really love her and I don’t know what to do now. As now I am giving her space and she said don’t talk to her and she didn’t say how many days or weeks or months. Should I talk to her after few days I really don’t know what to do
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Sorry If some sentences have grammatical errors English is not my first language
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She’s already broken up with you; she’s your ex, not your girlfriend. And she told you to leave her alone, so leave her alone. Move on.
I think you need to give her space. She was okay with you guys studying for an exam but then says you have not been intimate her to be couple is a red flag. She must have been feeling like this for awhile to bring it up now. I wonder what mistake you think you made? If she already said that you can’t win her back I would move on when someone’s mind is made up it’s made up.
She’s broken up with you, unfortunately you need to let her go. Not being intimate (rather sexually or romantically) can really break a relationship, and according to your ex you weren’t. Gotta take that learned lesson as you move forward – not saying you have to be intimate all the time but something to check yourself on