About to schedule a blowjob, never been sucked, deepthroated before and want to enjoy this as much as possible for first time.

Said she’s gonna gag etc. How do I make most out of this rare opportunity?

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  4. Not just be clean, but *thoroughly* wash off soap. I rub some food oils into my business before i get blown so my skin doesnt absorb as much saliva, but i clear that with my partner first, yknow, allergies and preferences to be considered.

  5. Also very important to focus on washing balls, taint and asshole as well as your dick. They’re more commonly a source of bad odor. Trim at least a little. Definitely don’t grab her head or thrust if it’s not clear she wants that.

    If you’re not used to cumming this way, you actually may find it takes a while. It’s a very different feeling and even though it’s great, it took me a while to learn to cum from oral. So don’t be surprised if that happens. There’s nothing wrong with you.

    A better question: how does one schedule a blowjob session with a girl?

  6. Just clean it.

    Maybe trim your pubic hair, but it’s optional. As for gagging, it’s normal. She’ll control how much (if ever) she’s willing to gag.

    And don’t push her head down! Even if you’re overwhelmed. Do that only if you get her consent for that

  8. Hydrate, don’t masturbate (if you do then just edge), shower, trim a bit and make sure your junk is clean.

    And I can’t stress this enough, something I’ve heard from far too many over the years, is the amount of men they performed oral on who don’t properly wipe or clean their asses.

  11. Take a good shower and clean up, trim if you have long hair and for the love of god wash your ass. I hate giving head to a man that hasn’t washed his ass good enough. It’s a total turn off and makes the whole experience gross.

  12. Either discuss beforehand about where she’s comfortable with you cumming or make it very obvious that you’re about to cum so she can get ready for it.

  13. Don’t be afraid to make noise/be vocally appreciative. Most people find it hot.

  14. I’m surprised nobody mentioned eating pineapples yet. Is that still a thing? 🍍

  15. Shower well, sit back and enjoy… make some approving noises to let her know you’re enjoying whatever she’s doing (if you, in fact, *are* enjoying it that is 😅)

  17. The same way you do with a guy. (Sorry couldn’t resist the joke.)

    Generally the most important thing is your bathing. When I know someone is going to be down there, I generally wash 3 times just to be extra sure I got everything. Also touch up your shave/trim if you do that.

    Also if she tends to gag, I know this is a killer, but she might throw up. She also might not be able to deep throat you, keep an eye on her body’s responses and if you don’t think she’s having a good time, tell her you’d prefer a regular BJ.

  18. Tell her when your about to cum! She might not want to swallow but if she does and you tell her your about to cum she’ll start deep throating you … enjoy!!!

  19. Defenitly a thorough shower and a trim.

    If you wanna be a real gentleman have some water and a towel or some tissues handy for her.

    Also, maybe get some condoms just in case things developed further.

    And then lean back, enjoy, let her do her thing, and warn her before you come.

    I’m wondering if you are the guy who posted a few days ago about his college friend who offered to give him a blow job every once in a while and who was unsure whether to take her up on that offer, haha.

  20. The day before, do a complete deep clean. The reason you do it a day before is there is no time pressure. I’m talking full crime scene clean up. From the belly button, down wankers lane, to the old chap, your clockweights, then stinkers bridge and your winking cigar cutter, and all up in your bute-ock cleavage. Get in all the crevices and under the bits. Give yourself a nice trim up top above your most valuable possession, and then a careful shave down under (do not go full Ken doll though. No one wants to see a bald man child down there). She will happily suck on your hanging love spuds if they are bald and smooth, and you will love her for it. Spend hours doing all of this, and get rid of the trimmed hair as best possible (it’s persistent). There will still be some left for tomorrow’s Final Wash. For the next days’ Final Wash, make sure you have your Final Shit before the Final Wash, then just double check all is well, a final scrub down, a hint of something smelling good, and you’re good to go. Good luck buddy.

    Ps. Return favour to her if you get the chance. It all comes back.

  22. If you do any trimming or shaving, shower afterward to wash away clippings

  23. Make sure you ask her before you begin where to cum!

    Maybe she’s into swallowing, maybe she’s not, maybe she likes it in the face, maybe she doesn’t so please give her the choice, and give her a heads up right before it happens!

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