So I’m a bisexual man and I’ve been using a dating app. I’m getting to know 3 different men at the same time. It wasn’t intentional to talk to them simultaneously. They just happened to swipe back all at the same time lol
I seem to connect well to all 3 of them although there’s one I want to be related romantically with. Now, I’m not sure whether or not I should cut things off with the other 2 guys bec we’re good friends already. Although I want to keep in touch with them (not chat regularly like we used to do), I feel bad if they have been talking to me all this time seeing me as a potential romantic partner.
Also, I wonder if the guy I like will dislike it that I’m currently talking to 2 other men. I’m ready to stop chatting with them regularly and start exclusively talking with the guy I like.
I’m basically confused if what’s the most appropriate thing to do here. Is there any way I do not make a mistake? Or does chatting with the 3 of them a mistake already in the first place?
Thanks!
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I’ve been in a similar position.
For the 2 other guys, you can just say you’re not looking for anything and just want to be friends or you can straight up say you’ve met someone and just want to be friends. Just be straight up to be honest! It’s easier that way
For the person that you’re actually interested in, I believe it is fine to still talk to other people if you haven’t made it exclusive yet or haven’t reached that stage yet. Once you decide you actually want to be exclusive, then cut the other two off.
For the situation where you didn’t want to make it exclusive yet, it’s fine to talk to other people and go out with them too. It’s dating and meeting other people. If there is no feeling of exclusivity and there is no title, then have fun and go out and talk to other people.