After becoming sexually active, the only way I(19f) have been able to finish is through clit stimulation. Whether it’s a vibrator or fingers, I feel as though my body has only gotten used to just this. Although penetration feels really good at times, my boyfriend(20m) really believes I can finish from penetration. I’ve honestly tried dildos, fingering, g spot vibrators, and different positions but nothing really helps. I really don’t understand the mechanism of penetration of how some women can accomplish but it’s honestly become so frustrating! If any of you guys have any helpful tips that work or have worked for you, it would be greatly appreciated, thanks!
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There are women (the majority), who just can’t. Don’t get fixed on the idea to solve this.
Your boyfriend is misinformed. The majority of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, for the same reason that the majority of men need dick stimulation to orgasm.
Adding clit stimulation to PIV sex can help, whether you use fingers or a vibrator.
Have you tried foreplay and then going into cowgirl position? Cowgirl is a very easy way for women to cum to via penetration.
You are like the vast majority of women. This is how we come, and you shouldn’t feel like you have to come the same way your partner does.
Try simultaneous intercourse plus clit stim. Nothing like it.