How do you please a man?

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1. You know twerking? That’s the movement you would like to do when riding him. It’s easier and less tiring than just up and down. I suggest that if you haven’t done it before, that you practice a little with a pillow between your legs.

   And when giving a handjob the tip is to hold it like you’re the most shameless woman on earth. Put more pressure on your thumbs and you might wanna use some lub (not necessary if you’re up for a blowjob) and go all the way up to the head.

2. Don’t squeeze his joystick like you’re trying to squeeze q Lemon. Use gentle movements, also LUBE is your best friend, don’t care if you get wetter than a water park a little axel grease goes a long way. Also try building up to sex. Heavy petting, oral from him and you (69ing is great btw), or just good old fashion mack session. Then when he just can’t stand it ask him what he wants, that is a turn on for guys.

3. If he really doesn’t want to talk about what is pleasing him. Try things out touch him harder softer, faster and just wait for his reaction eg. sound,body movements.
   Being experimental is either way good.

   And if you want an introduction go to a pornsite watch some homemade videos.

   Keep having fun together 🙂

4. A lot of it cums with practice, but you just gotta talk to him! Ask him to talk you through a bj for example. Or watch videos online about it. It’s how I got good at pleasing my the female body without having a lot of experience under my belt 🤷🏻‍♂️

5. You should definitely broach the topic, the fact you are both shy will actually make it less awkward. Communication is the only way to improve the experience for each other.

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   Handjob wise, Everyone is different *again* so I would say communicate (by communicate I mean dirty talk into communication 🥴 since you are both shy and quiet out of the bed)? That might be something you’ll like. Dirty talking doesn’t have to be vurlgar unless you are into it. To me, it is more how you say what you say.
   Here is something you can try, next time you are watching TV for example or in a parking lot or whatever you can start my massage him through his pants. Start by just caressing and slowly increase the pressure, lean towards his ear and whisper “Do you like that?”. *You can play around his ear if thats something you want to explore* No matter how shy he is he will answer that one I promise you. Increase the pressure a little more and ask him “Do you want more?”, before actually starting the handjob it will sort of help you gauge how much pressure he likes and we get him ready. Also, lubrication is your friend. I personally prefer coconut oil for handjobs… it smells nice and won’t be a problem if I want to go from handjob to blowjob.

   And please just enjoy yourself! I think that’s what will please him more!

7. Keep that cock wet

8. He would love to feel you suck on his cock

9. Plenty of sex advice everywhere but honestly it comes down to:

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   1/ Show vulnerability – makes it easier for him to reciprocate. Laugh about how you both don’t know what you’re doing

   2/ Communicate, but everybody is different, if shy I would say giving real time advice should come only when asked for, else it might be seen as criticism (but again this is very personal, would not be surprised if many people disagree with me..)

   3/ Talking before the clothes come off is HOT. Regardless of if clothes will come off, talking about what you like, what you tried, how you’re thinking about him.. hot

   4/ Bluntly, as a woman you can almost not fail if you’re not being mean and don’t have vaginismus or something. Be a hole. (ha). But seriously, you of course can make things MUCH better if you participate and of course, do that! Instead, for men, shy or non-confident ones in particular there might be an element of pressure to perform, anxiety etc, hence my ‘be a hole’ joke – Very non threatening to allow him to ‘masturbate in you’. Either way emphasising that you’re just playing this is not a performance pass-or-fail thing will be helpful.

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   Eh the rest, what the other people here said sounds fine too 😉

10. Men are pretty visual, so positions that allow you to highlight your physically attractive qualities go a long way. Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are great in this respect and give you control of the pace/depth in case you are still getting comfortable with the dynamic.

11. >How do you please a man?

    Show up naked, bring beer.

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13. Ask him. Don’t be afraid to offer a blowjob and see what that feels like. Have him guide you.