What do y’all think about this?

Alright y’all the story is as follows…

I made a few friends. One of these friends was much closer than the others and it was pretty obvious too. We hung out more and talked a lot more (they got really and I mean really deep, like traumatic experiences deep). Things were moving pretty quick and I noticed. We talked in person, text, and FT literally everyday, most (98%) of the time initiated by them when it came to the FT. This made me believe that they were as heavily invested as I was.

Life goes on and I continue to treat them like my own sibling (favored them above others). Fed them, helped them, drove them, was there when they needed me. All of this continued for 10 ish weeks. Then we go on break, 2 weeks.

Shit hits the fan…

Unfortunately over that break they break up with their SO (they don’t tell me but I figured it out). They stop talking and responding even when I made an effort to see how they were doing.

Long story short I find out from a mutual friend that they had been talking shit about me and my bros behind my back (who also tested them well even when they did not like them). I was informed of this like 15 weeks later. And in those 15 weeks I still treated them well. I gave them many chances to tell me the truth but they lied and played the victim (they don’t know that I know what they said). I obviously shut them out completely and they stopped talking to me too.

Now months of not saying a word and they text me out of the blue asking for my help. I want to respond really badly and call them out on everything but idk if it’s worth the effort and hassle. They put a knife in my back and now they want my help. Sometimes I lay in bed annoyed af cause there is so much stuff that I want call them out on.

How do y’all think I should respond? That’s even if I should respond. Appreciate all y’all help.

1 comment
  1. Treat them the same as they did to you. No contact. Rip that toxin out. As I heard once, “Folks who think you can’t get rid of family or people close as family: your appendix is part of your body, but if that shit gets toxic you gotta rip it out!”

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