My husband (at the time) was going on dating apps pretending to be me and luring men to our house to sleep with me without my consent (which is why he is the ex now). This one guy (let’s call him Ethan) he met had wanted him to message over Facebook to prove I was real. Ex hubby had told me what to say to him to get him to come over, I ended up telling the guy the whole truth of the situation. He was very understanding and helpful and then stopped talking to us.
Two years went by (I was still with hubby but we were trying to fix things in therapy) and then Ethan sent me a random friend request. I accepted it and we started talking and I realized we had a lot in common. My husband saw me messaging him and told me we should invite him to go out with us to the drive in.
First time meeting him and I felt like time stood still. He was beautiful, he was kind, polite, amazing energy. Me and him had chemistry like I had never imagined possible. The whole night him and I were glued to each other and it felt like we were magnetized. This led to a fight with my hubby and long story short the marriage ended right after that.
After the movies Ethan had told me I was perfect, how he was really attracted to me, he couldn’t believe he had the chance to date me (hubby was talking about an open relationship).
Fast forward two weeks and I decide to message him to meet up. He agrees and we meet. We talk and he’s saying he thought I hated him for ruining my marriage. We ended up kissing (told me he had waited years to do it then leaned in) he cuddled, I gave him a hug. When it was time for me to go he said he hopes he didn’t scared me by kissing me. I assured him he didn’t he talked about the next time we hung out what we would do.
He hadn’t texted me and so I asked him if I had done something wrong. He said no. I ended up in the hospital and my ex was the only one who could pick me up. Ethan saw us and blocked me immediately. That was two months ago. He recently unblocked me and so I wanted to know if it was worth reaching out to him or not?
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I’ve no advice for you but this is one hell of a read. Why didn’t you ask Ethan to pick you up though?
I bet your ex husband set this back up to see if you’d take the bait and you did.
I’d be surprised if this isn’t a setup.
I think it is at least worth it to put everything on the table with him. He may always have reservations about you based on how your relationship began, but it would be worth it for you both I think to let it all out and to possibly provide you both more clarity. It could lead to your road ending, a new beginning or a lasting friendship. At least you won’t be stuck on wondering what if.
No bullshitin.You and your ex husband are terrible people.