This happens so often It must be a me thing. Lately I will casually date a guy for a few dates up to a month, sometimes with sex sometimes not, sometimes nice restaurants and “courting” me sometimes more chill and hanging at their place. Then the time comes when we either decide to have a vacay weekend together, an extended sleepover, or just a date that is way longer than usual like a day trip. This normally leads to them losing interest in me.I fear I’m boring them by being myself, and I have a habit of oversharing that I think turns men off. They want me to initiate sex and flirty chats and instead I initiate personal and emotional conversations about my life that are just way too intense for them. On a first date these tendencies aren’t really obvious. I think i’m disappointing people and I would like tips on avoiding this in the future
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> I also have a habit of oversharing that I think turns men off.
That could do it. Even the most stalwart of us could wilt under that onslaught.
By over sharing, you are ruining your mystery too quickly. Stay mysterious, slightly aloof and unavailable sometimes and the men will find you hard to attain. They will work hard to win you then. Good luck to you.