I love that my girlfriend is always wanting to give me blowjobs just about anywhere and anytime. However, I feel awful because she’s not great at them and I should be grateful she has a desire to please me. I’ve given her feedback and talk to her while she does it, and I’ve only climaxed a few times this way over the course of the year we’ve been together. It’s something that bothers me and I hate feeling the way that I do. Things had been serious and now we are kind of coasting. Am I wrong for feeling the way that I do? I feel like such a piece of crap for feeling this way. Anyone else have similar situations and how to work through it?
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Ask yourself: “what would you like her to do?” and “what would you like to do to her?”
Dude! You’re blowing it! Lol!
I think you made a good attempt to help, but your execution sucks. When you have a girl that loves to give blowjobs you are a very lucky guy! You’ll only know how lucky when you get a new gf that hates em.
Here’s how you do the course correction without insulting her.
1. Never tell her what to do, or how to do it.
2. Instead~~while she is doing the deed say stuff like.
3. “I love it when you use your tongue 👅 “ even if she wasn’t doing that. Or.
“It’s amazing when you go all the way down baby”
“I love the way you work my head”
“ licking my balls drives me wild”
“You’re the best”
“You’re amazing”
“Holy Cow!”
Of course she wasn’t doing these things, but she’ll think she did!
This way you give her positive reinforcement through suggestion. And you never told her do it this way or that way.
Try that!
And let me know how it goes for you my friend! Good luck 👍🏼🍀