I met someone from Tinder who’s visiting in our country. We chat for a week and met last friday. We really vibed and had a good time and spent a lot of time together. We met at Friday 9pm and I left his place on saturday lunch time.
There was actually no awkward moment and we cuddled most of the time. Before I left, we talked about meeting again before his vacation ends. No specific day was agreed tho.
We’re still talking now. He always say we should meet up again but when I ask when he doesn’t really reply anything. He just says, let me make a plan.
Should I push him one last time or stop now? He’s only here for 10 days and it’s him who has issues on availability that’s why I’m asking when he’s free.
I’m thinking maybe he’s just too kind to say he doesn’t want to see me again that’s why he still reply but doesn’t set a date with me…
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If he isn’t making a solid plan, I say don’t put much effort into him. What could possibly happen? Sex one more time and then chatting long distance? Meh.
I would say, depends on what you want. It sounds like he isn’t here for long, so if you want a long term relationship, it doesn’t seem like he’s very interested if he isn’t actively making plans. I would try not to put too much attachment into it yet, but if you’re really interested, you could definitely try to give some solid times, like how’s this time so and so. If he dodges everything without giving a time he’s free. I’d say stop there. If you just want to have a ons, then you can definitely give a few dates to see if he’s free.
Fair enough, then. I say ask for a specific date and if he doesn’t give you one then he’s not giving you the clarity you deserve.