There’s this girl at my work I can tell is highly interested in me. Though, whenever I distance myself from her right after interacting with her, so I’m not always up her ass, I wait it out before interacting with her again. While I’m distancing myself and the longer I wait, the more nervous I get about what to say to her. Then I feel like that if I don’t go back to her to talk to her soon the worlds gonna end. Lol. Does anybody have any advice on what to do here?
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Hm… It seems you’re really anxious, and put her on a pedestal a lot.
This is something that you should calm down psychologically. Try to understand the patterns of this feelings, where does it come from.try to visualize and maybe write down the worst it could happen, and then go to re-read it in a moment when you feel less anxious, so you get a practical sense of how made up it is.
But you probably should try to talk about it with a expert
Best thing I could say is that someone who likes you is not going to change their mind easily. You’re not one phrase away from getting laughed at and losing everything. You’re actually one phrase away from doing steps, because that’s the direction you both want.
Attraction changes much slower. If it changes in a week, clearly it wasn’t that strong and would have gone away anyway