I (M27) have spent the better half of this year in a long distance relationship with the first person I can say I actually loved, but lastnight she (F23) decided the the distance was to much.
Context time, she lives with her overprotective father and siblings she has no job and she needs to aske permission to even get on her computer, her father doesn’t like men (and I mean men in general) so I doubt there is another guy.
We met for the first time in person on the 4th of July to watch fireworks and honestly it was the best first date I’ve ever had no awkwardness, the family that I did meet seemed to like me and she couldn’t let go of my hand all night then when it did come time for me to leave we had a perfect kiss the end the night.
Last night we got into a fight because she wanted space from us because of how far apart we are along with her thinking that her dad would find out about us, that he wouldn’t approve and she would lose her laptop so we couldn’t talk anymore. She wants to give our relationship a break for 3 day to see if we still want to be together and all I can think about is the fact that I’m about to lose the first person In my life who hasn’t tried to use me, I spent my night crying because I couldn’t sleep, Ive contemplation buying some alcohol so I can knock myself out tonight and be able to work in the morning. One of the last thing she told me was that I was the sweetest guy she’s ever known and that I was her one true love.
I don’t really think I’m looking for advice but maybe just others opinion.
Sorry for my terrible Grammer and any spelling mistakes
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Sounds like this is a first relationship for both of you. You make it sound very fairytale like but I’m going to be the witch and ask what you would find possibly appealing and see as a long term partner that is 23, unemployed and has to ask her dad to use the internet?