I spent a good chunk of the day talking with a girl and having a fairly flowing conversation. Why do I still feel like women despise me using their time?

I only speak to girls for school or work related issues or for help of course like tech support or for help/inquiries at like offices.

I assume when I’m partnered with one for a lab then her day is ruined. I try not to talk much. Never ask about their day.

It’s probably because I have no value since I’m a loser.

But yet today I’ve been having an interesting conversation with one and she didn’t seem bothered.

I’m not pursuing because I know that would go nowhere but it was nice to not feel like women view me as garbage.