How can guys tell whether the girl they’re dating treats others nicely?

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1. I see how they treat waiting staff. Its not hard to spot a cunt.

2. How they talk about people behind their back is one example. Gossip and mean girl behavior isn’t *exclusively* gendered, but females do it a lot more (and more viciously) on average. Also just duplicity in general. It’s a bad sign when someone will say glowing things to someone’s face but spit nothing but venom when they leave the room.

3. Ask her to talk about her best friends

4. Usually no, at least not initially. Most of my dating happens one on one.

5. Just observe her behavior towards people. Like the waiter at the restaurant.

   The ways she treats the wait staff (is a good indicator) because they have no personal connection to her. They are professional and they are to do a job. Observe how she treats them and what she says about them (Anything negative – Its a red flag) ,.

6. I have to wait to see them around friends and family.

   One of my ex’s presented as the nicest person in the world, until I saw her with her college roommates. Big time cunt.

7. they pay

8. How does she treat servers when she orders a meal.

9. I’ve never dated a treat.

10. Go out on a dinner and see how they treat the waiter.

11. Watch her behaviour closely.