My husband and I both have incredibly high libidos to begin with. We usually have sex 2-4 times a day when we’re able to. The only exceptions are when we’re so tired that we can barely move, or when something depressing throws us out of the mood.
When it comes to sex, we feed off of eachother. If one of us actively initiates, the other becomes even more sexually driven, and they end up initiating quicker than the other the next time. Then the cycle continues back and forth, becoming more and more rapid as time goes on. It’s an unending positive feedback loop of horniness. It’s gotten to a point now where we’re both so insatiable that it’s affecting my work performance.
When I’m at my desk, all I can think about is my husband. I daydream nonstop about fucking him or him fucking me. I can’t hold a conversation with coworkers anymore, I sound distant with customers, and I’m taking more “away from desk” time than ever before. I’m also taking breaks double their usual length so that I can sext him. I love him, and I love wanting him, and I love that he feels the same about me, but I can’t stand feeling like I’m falling behind on my daily tasks.
Obviously, sex isn’t the only part of our relationship. He’s a genuine, sweet, funny, handsome man that I’ll gladly cuddle up to and watch movies/read books with. We love eachother so so so much even in non-sexual settings. But sex is just taking so much of our time now. I love the sex, but it has truly taken control of my priorities and my own brain is fighting me on chilling out.
Are there any others who have gone through this before? How did you convince yourself to cool down? I need help lol
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You sure have an enviable “problem”. For me what I can do when I’m getting distracted is to kind of compartmentalize these thoughts. I try pushing them back and thinking I will deal with it later when I’m free. It’s simplistic sure but it’s taken me years to get right.. I’m sure there are better ways to do it though.