We’ve (27F/29M) been seeing each other for 6 or 7 weeks. We have really amazing and exciting sex and just get along amazingly with lots in common. We haven’t really had a conversation about what we are, but exclusivity has been alluded to recently. I am a firm believer that a conversation needs to happen before establishing an exclusive relationship and he knows that i require that. I’m not sure that I’m ready to have an exclusive relationship with him at this point, as I’m also dating somebody else (28M, I’m not that emotionally involved atp). I also don’t know if i want a serious relationship right now, but in all honesty i would be upset if he was emotionally involved with someone else. So whatever that means. He posted something weird on his IG story today talking about protecting his peace has made his life boring (it was a screenshot of a TikTok, not his own words). It bothered me and has me thinking that I’m boring to him. Idk if I’m overthinking. What do you think? Is it worth a conversation? Wth do i say?
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You seem to be reading a lot into his social media, and caring a lot about what it might say for somebody who you dont want to be exclusive with 👀
What makes you think this has anything to do with you?