This is relatively straight forward. I’m a young adult, but I’m pretty inexperienced when it comes to anything sexual with other people. But there’s this guy I work with who has made sly comments towards me for months, and lately I’ve been making them back. He has made countless “jokes” about me giving him a blow job, but lately they haven’t seemed like jokes, and I am completely into it. The only thing stopping me is that I’ve never given one, and I don’t want to suck at it. So please give me some advice.
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Take him into the workroom and he will teach you
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A famous comedian once said there is no such thing as a blow job.
The other thing that gets banded around alot is ‘don’t forget the shaft’
Well if you want to give a good blowjob then you Do want to suck at it.
Just tell is your first time.
Use your hands as much as your mouth, don’t forget to gently caress his balls and have a plan for when he’s going to cum. Probably wise to not let him cum in your mouth the first time, especially seeing as your not too experienced from your own admission
Just relax. As long as you enjoy it, you can’t fail 🙂
It’s like suck a popsicle
Honestly just check the FAQ in the sidebar. There are multiple threads on the topic giving excellent advice and techniques.
Ask him to teach you. He’ll like that.
Also look up “The Bad Girls Bible”.
Enjoy!
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Modern Man Advice
You’ll find a few pointers here:
* /r/Blowjobs/
* /r/BlowjobGirls/
* /r/GirlsFinishingTheJob/
The important thing is that you take the time to really enjoy it. That’s how you’ll get to be really good at it.
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Practice on a Banana or a Popsicle if you’re nervous!
Amateur and homemade porn videos. There are a plethora of couples on the internet who make love in which you could reference. There are also tutorials on porn sites as well. Don’t take Karen’s worded advice on how to give mediocre BJ’s… Watch someone give do it. Good luck 😊
Practice on a banana and it will be helpful
For fuck sake. Go on the sub and type your question. It’s been posted a thousand times over.
It makes all the difference if you enjoy it
First off don’t use your teeth you want to wrap your lips around your teeth and maybe practice on a long popsicles. Also don’t be scared if you get lockjaw it might happen just take a moment and relax .
Ther’es plenty of resources if you google around.
P m me and I talk you threw it while you start on me
Maximum suction, NO teeth, use your hand too, eye contact at times and SWALLOW the cum
here are some top tier tips.
1. actually suck on it, don’t just put your lips on it
2. give him a handjob in between the sucking
3. lick the tip of his dong
4. tease him while doing it
Do not use teeth (I’ve had it done, very painful), use hands if too big or scared to touch your throat for gag reflex reasons. Caress balls gently ( but I’ve heard some of my friends say they don’t enjoy that. I love it) Act or show you want to do it and not give off just doing it to do it vibes. Every girl I’ve been with that enjoyed it was way better at it than the ones just doing it for me.. most importantly (to me at least) eye contact, can’t speak for every guy, but eye contact with my cock in their mouth drives me wild. Hope this helps!
I don’t know if someone else has said this but buy a dildo and give the dildo a blowjob a few times before doing the real thing so you know your limits. I would recommend one with a really good suction cup I have this one https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/dildos/realistic-dildos/p/lifelike-lover-luxe-realistic-color-changing-silicone-dildo-7-inch/a45253g81580.html. That way you can suck as hard/fast as you want without it falling off whatever you put it on.
Look up the frenulum!! Very sensitive spot.
1. No idea why it’s called a blow job because you actively want to suck on the penis. Like, pull it into your mouth by just sucking it. That does get kind of exhausting though, so I tend to suck for a while, stop sucking but still putting it in and out of my mouth, then suck again.
2. Someone already said this, but use your hands! I have a sensitive gag reflex, and my man is well hung, so I can’t put him all the way in my mouth. I use my hand to stroke the area of the gap between where my mouth ends and where his penis ends. I like to use it like it’s still my mouth though, so it’s kind of in a rhythm, if that makes sense?
3. Drink A LOT of water. Dry mouth is not your friend here.
4. I really like to build up to the moment and have fun with it. I’ll kiss down my husband’s stomach until I reach his penis. Then, I lick up the sides and twirl my tongue around the tip for a second before I actually put it in my mouth.
5. Someone said to play with the balls, and I think that’s a good idea with caution. I’ve found men like their balls fondled very differently lol, so I’d just ask him what feels good.
6. Don’t be obsessive or needy about it, but check in every so often and see what he likes that you’re doing. He’ll be understanding because it is your first time, but this is also typical when doing something new with a partner, even if it is something you have done before. Before hand, I’d ask what he likes don’t to him while he’s receiving head as well.
6. This has already been mentioned, but it can’t be mentioned enough: watch your teeth. Shield them like your life depends on it for real. That can get very painful for him very quickly.
Put your heart into it ❤️