Is it bad to ask for a girls number at her workplace? If you like her?

7 comments

1. yep its weird as she is likely paid to be nice, if she doesn’t want to that puts her in a stressful situation of rejecting you and trying to be processional

2. Yes, it’s bad.

3. I’ve seen this question pop up here before, and the best advice I’ve seen is to not approach and ask her verbally. Rather, slip her your number on a piece of paper and just walk away (making sure she sees/receives the piece of paper of course). It’s the most non-confrontational way and it puts very little pressure on her.

4. The best way to handle this is to leave your number instead of asking for hers. This takes the pressure off of her responding in the moment. If you want to, you could say something like “Hey, I see you working here a lot and I think you’re really cute. I’d love to take you out sometime, here’s my number if you’re interested.” Alternatively, you could just slip it in the bill or something with a cute note.

5. Echoing others, slip her your number and a very short msg (usually when leaving/paying). Takes pressure off both people and if she is interested she will contact you when she could.

6. Yes. Bad.

7. Yes, it is bad and manipulative. She/he can’t comfortably deny or leave the situation, because she is on the clock and has maintain keeping customers happy. Don’t be that person to put her/him in that position.