How do guys feel when a girl asks you about period sex? I’m seeing my boyfriend for the first time in a month. We’re long distance. But it turns out I’m getting my period tomorrow. I’m on birth control so my period is basically heavy spotting rather than a flow. We just started dating officially last week, and I told him we can’t have sex because of my period. I guess I just want to know how he will feel if I ask him because I’m worried he will feel awkward or uncomfortable. I also don’t know if he will say no because most guys I know are disgusted by the idea of period sex. He said it was fine but we aren’t seeing each other for another month after this weekend. I didnt know if for the guys that are grossed out by period sex if spotting would turn them off too. I just wanted to hear some of your experiences with this stuff. Thanks 🙂
Little update: I talked to him and he said if I’m comfortable with it so is he. Thank you all for the advice 🙂
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“Hey, I’m on my period. I know not everyone is into it, but I’d like to try having sex while I’m on my period. Is that something you’d be into?”
my girlfriend and I had been together for about a month and we were ready to get more intimate. we had gone out one night and were back at her apartment, making out. at one point she says “I don’t want to go much farther because I have my period now.”
I said “oh, that’s fine. I understand.”
She said “But I want to see what you look like naked.”
Oh. My. Fu)&Uing. God.
She stripped me on the couch and played with my body and got me off.
We’ve been married for almost 10 years and have three kids. And I will never, ever forget that night and those words for as long as I draw breath.
I usually tell them I am on my period and first see their reaction. If they seem to take it as no sex I just tell them “we can always use a towel on the bed”. If they don’t get it or seem to hesitate I just tell them I don’t see my period as a reason to not have sex, but it is up to them. I can’t think of one guy preferring not to.
Basically, just be honest and tell him. There’s nothing to be ashamed off.
I’d be upfront and tell him that you want it and that your on your period and see how he reacts. You could clarify how much your flow might be and that you can put a towel down or he can wear a condom if he wouldn’t normally. I usually offer my guy the choice between a blowjob or a fuck when on mine it if they don’t want sex, I usually can orgasm if they just stimulate the outside
As a male, a little thing like a period hasn’t ever stopped me. If you’re okay with it, so am I.
Pro tip: if you’re on oral birth control, just skip the placebo and keep taking it – there is actually zero need to have a period if you don’t want one.