I am generally a guy that’s willing to have sex pretty much always, I am also bisexual. I’d say I am in a happy relationship and that we love each other.
However, my girlfriend rarely has sex with me, which is weird because she had many sexual partners in the past and was generally super willing to have sex with them. In out first 2 weeks together we also had sex all the time. But then, all of a sudden, it stopped. Maybe it’s something with me? I am divorced and maybe the problem is on me?
TD;LR: is it on me that she doesn’t want sex?
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I don’t think you should blame yourself like that nor compare your relationship with the ones she had previously. Everyone is different so your relationship will look different as well.
Did you try talking to her, expressing your questions and worries?
Did anything change suddenly other than sex frequency? Do you try to initiate and if yes, how does she react?
I don’t think the problem is you. You need to decide if this is a deal breaker or not and end or continue the relationship based on that decision. Personally for me it is a deal breaker. You’re not married and no kids or shared house so it’s easy to get out now if it’s a deal breaker. Check out r/deadbedrooms