We’ve been in contact for months. Daily for those months tbh. Maybe 3 day breaks in between. Mostly done by me. When I mention the days and months, I’m not saying it as something to track interest. It’s to actually track time.
I can’t think of anything that shows disinterest. I can only think of and noticed signs of interest. But I could be overthinking or forgot the disinterest:
– unless he swiped on everyone without looking, he probably thinks I’m pretty or likes who I am based on what was written in my bio
– not saying texting means interest but we’ve texted a lot
– showing excitement during our texts (especially after I showed interest) (typing like thisssss, hearts, smileys, texting more frequently)
– being reliable (if he says “I will do this tomorrow” he does it)
– taking small amounts of interest shown by me and using it to push things forward
– texting as if he was talking… not just “yeah lol” but saying “yeah that’s so true, it’s actually funny” or something like that
But idk, I just feel like there isn’t anything and I shouldn’t be “catching feelings”. Especially since I asked him out and then the texting and stuff just faded. Is it like “okay I can stop trying” or “this isn’t what I want so I’m gonna leave” silence? You know?
—— I’ve heard lots of times that guys can never be too sure or have to hide their feelings because they could be wrong and make things uncomfortable…
I’ve shown interest, then stopped and kept things neutral like 2 times. I’ve texted a lot then been silent for days (4 at maximum) and he called me bro after that,, once.
Recently I’ve left him on seen for 3 days and responded yesterday and he hasn’t seen it yet because he’s busy. I’m just confused on if he likes me. I’m not worried about the response times
I wanna show him I’m interested but I don’t wanna just pour affection onto him out of nowhere. Ive been open with my communication to show that I care and like him, and he does too that’s how I know he’s busy but that can be seen as friendly
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Wait… you both have been in TEXT contact for months… and he never asked you out?
> I’ve heard lots of times that guys can never be too sure or have to hide their feelings because they could be wrong and make things uncomfortable…
I will tell you this… you don’t want to date men with that mentality.
Look… I’ll simplify this whole situation for you:
1. He’s not interested. Move on. You are wasting your time texting and trying to bond with this guy.
2. This guy is so insecure, he’s afraid to ask you out.
> he called me bro after that,, once.
I just noticed this in your story. Move on from this guy.