I’m a 23F, I’ve been single for 3 months and have ignored my sexual needs until now.
The thing is: I grew up in a very religious household and after I left I have always been dating or in relationships. Now I want to enjoy my time single and dating-free for a while, but I just don’t know how to masturbate.
I’m not in the mood for casual sex and want to stay single for a while, but I know I need to find a way to please myself before I make a mistake by indulging with the first guy available.
I’ve read countless articles on it, watched videos, read and listened to erotic tales, and tried several toys. I feel horny but something is blocking me from actually finding the act pleasant and satisfying.
Any tips on how to get started with self-pleasure? Help!
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Buy a vibrator or suction toy for your clitoris. Relax with a nice bath, candles, mood lighting, music. Take yourself on a date. Maybe even have a couple of drinks if you need to relax.
Get the vibrator- Magic Wand Plus… watch a sexy movie and relax
>I feel horny but something is blocking me from actually finding the act pleasant and satisfying.
Are you feeling uncomfortable or awkward or like you’re being watched? What worked for me was to repeat the words “”everybody does it” over and over in my head for months while I used my vibrator, and eventually I felt more comfortable and could enjoy it. And yeah, sorry, it did take months.
Also, use your vibrator regularly even if you feel nothing. Eventually with repitition and all the sex positive content you’re consuming, your mind will relax and allow your brain and clitoris to talk to eachother.
I have a bullet vibe but I can’t cum without piv stimulation and clit stimulation at the same time so I would get a rabbit
Why have u waited?
I get turned on just by looking at myself, feeling my butt, etc. buy toys they are fun