I’m a guy from Southeast Asia. I’m already somewhat into interracialism, but I am strangely very fascinated and turned on by stories of other Asian guys especially in poorer/touristy areas having sex with white women. For example the stories of the bali beach surfers who date white tourists, the full moon party girl who falls for her Asian tour guide or scuba teacher, or the girl doing thai boxing who elopes with her instructor. These stories really turn me on and I’ve dated a few women who did these things and my sex life with them was much better even though some of these women weren’t really my type; it was just their stories that really turned me on.
I’m really struggling to understand why (I read somewhere that kinks are the result of some kind of trauma?) or even what is this kink called?
…and is there a way to politely ask women (who I’m intimate with) to share these stories without seeming weird?
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I think this would fall under the category of race play. I’d suggest checking out the book *The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo* by Mollena Williams for more info on this.
Idk man is it about socioeconomic status and power roles or color of their skin? Either way I don’t think it’s a big deal but it may also just be attracted to the “other”. Are you attracted to black women? Hispanic? Continental Asian? Alien females in fiction like Gamora from Guardians of the Galaxy?
It’s all the same middle-aged women who also hang out in all the mentally ill subs, yes.