I (21F) graduated college a few months ago, about three months ago I met this guy (22M) at a bar.
I initially wasn’t interested in him, he wasn’t my usual type and I usually am very casual with relationships because I’m young and I knew I was moving at the end of summer for work. However, after over a month of being friends we started hooking up. I haven’t liked someone this much in years. We talk all night and it feels so effortless. He always pushes me to do my best. He is affectionate and cares for me and makes me breakfast every morning. we also have great chemistry in bed.
I don’t know if he feels the same. It feels pretty pointless to expect anything to come out of this situation or to say how i feel. I know that moving is the right decision and that I have to move forward with my career, but I still feel so sad to leave. Any advice ?
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I mean if you have to leave you have to leave. Enjoy th3 goodness while it lasts, then look towards the future. Maybe down the road you can try again, or you’ll find someone else.
Why not tell the guy exactly how you feel and see if you two are on the same page. You can’t assume anything without talking things out with him first. If you need to move for your career then by all means do it.