So I (M16) just got with the person I like (F16) recently but don’t really know how anything works lol. (haven’t had something like this for like a year (had a kind of fwb thing but that doesn’t really count))
Essentially, I’m asking for advice on where to go with her. I live in a small town near the sea and with a nice forest and river nearby if that helps. I was thinking about us and a few friends taking a bus to the city and hanging out but I didn’t know if that was a great idea. She knows my friends fairly well but some of them dislike her and they will be upset if they aren’t invited. If you have any ideas lemme know ig lol I don’t use this thing very often 😅.
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I would say find things ya both like and do that.
Also if your friends dont like her dont invite them who cares if they get upset about it they dony have to go everywhere with you
You’ll learn early on that balancing friends and GF can be a juggling act. I encourage that you give each their own time and not try and combine the two. Not all women (although some do) want to be lumped in as another friend to tag along with what you guys would normally do without her.
In the end it’s ALL about communication. Ask her what she likes to do rather than trying to crystal ball it. Tell her what you like to do and see if there is crossover. Friends usually don’t like other peoples relationships because it represents change. Things will be different now and that comes with the territory.
My main advice above all else, be friends with your significant other. That will be thing that will help keep the relationship strong as you move through the ups and down of teenage life and beyond.