If so, how does it alter your self-image to see men who are more, similarly or even less endowed than you are?

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  3. It’s not a comparison. It’s more like, “oh, that’s a nice cock” or “ugh, stop showing closeups of his face”.

  5. Not, because if they show it’s also mostly for show (to impress, so above the normal human abilities, let alone my abilities)

    Only in my sport (swimming) because I feel like it’s impossible (improbable) to find good actors who also have a half decent swimming talent. And swimming movies seem to be boring to look at. So there I need to compare myself to people who swim slower than your average wanna be length breaker at the local pool

  7. Never. I’m not well endowed by any means but I also realise that you don’t necessarily need a massive dong or a dong at all to pleasure women. If lesbians can pleasure women than there is more to it than just having a dick

    Performance? I’m pretty sure male pornstars have to train their mind and members to perform. If they can do it so can I.

    Physique? Male pornstars come in all shapes and size. Not all of them are shredded athletes.

  11. Almost never. The things I compare myself to are the situations and success rate of other men in movies. Even that it’s not generally a main focus on comparing a protagonists who can do anything and is great at everything, but instead the focus us still usually about the movie, the plot or the character dynamics.

  12. Only when i see something i like and then i try to get that. I saw a guy once, his V is really cut, i wanted that, i was like “that is so nice.” I even paused the video to seeif i could make mine look like that in that position, not the case i guess i just need to lose weight or something. But i don’t really compare my size. I can’t change that by working out more

  13. Always. I’ve never been tested IRL nor had anyone say that I look and act well enough.

  17. I stopped watching porn. One day I realized watching another man have sex isnt something I want to do anymore.

  18. Porn is a distortion of reality. Camera tricks and guys exaggerating their size make for disconnected comparisons.

  19. It’s impossible not to, I am inherently comparing all men to me, both physically and personality wise. And for the most part is doesn’t alter me self image except for one glaring issue, I’ve dealt with an eating disorder and body dysmorphia since my teens and I can’t be satisfied with my stomach unless I have abs. Seeing men look better than me doesn’t hurt when I’m looking at them but in the long term I know it feeds into my disapproval of my belly fat.

  20. Size is a thing I only really end up thinking about when they’re sporting something absurd and I can’t stop imagining how uncomfortable it must be to try sucking or fucking most people with utterly massive cocks.

  21. I don’t, I like the way I am and don’t feel a need to compare myself with others.

  22. Literally never. Male porn stars are in the 1% when it comes to size and their ability to last long during sex. It’s not a fair comparison so I don’t do it. Also porn isn’t real. It’s all staged. It’s a performance, not a depiction of reality.

  23. Never lol, I mean I can see it, and know whether they are bigger, thicker, smaller or whatever but I don’t think about it because I’m straight and don’t spend time thinking about other mens dick.

  25. Pretty on par with guys in films… the one guy in the corner crying and jerking while his wife is getting pounded

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