Hi everyone! I am looking for the best beginner sex toys for a M/F couple.
Background: We are both mid 20s and have been together for over 2 years. Recently the sex drive has slowed down and we have talked about bringing toys in to possibly bring it back to how it used to be.
Issue: The main issue is we don’t know where to start and which toys are best. I have looked at a few sites for couples kits, but they are all bondage kits and we are looking for more toys (dildos, vibrators, etc.). Does anyone have any tips on best sites, sizes, etc for couple just getting into toys? We both will look at it together but need help starting.
Thanks!
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Honestly I would just go to your local sex shop together and see what they have there and decide. The workers are also pretty helpful if you tell them what you’re looking for
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Word of advice, dont be shook if lady gets big, thick dildos, or vibes. She is not replacing you because of your size. Keep your focus on her pleasure. Its not about you.
I don’t know what country you’re in, so I can’t recommend a specific site, (but Lovehoney in the UK is quite affordable and has a lot of options if you happen to be based there.) We have a cockring with quite a long vibrating “tail” on it so it can reach my clit when he’s inside me. It feels amazing for both of us. We also often use a small bullet vibrator (nothing fancy, your standard bullet vibe) because it’s easy to hold on my clit in most positions. We have a wand that he loves to use on me during foreplay, and because it’s cordless, the handle can go inside me as well.
Remote controlled “love eggs” that vibrate can be really fun, you can use them in public, or my bf’s favourite game is having me give him a BJ while he turns it on and off sporadically so I moan at the same time.
There are also vibrators that are designed to be used during PiV sex, but I don’t have any personal experience with those.
Other than that, there’s lots of other accessories to explore like handcuffs, nipple clamps, blindfolds, butt plugs etc etc, and fetish specific things ofc.
Have fun!