I’m (M22) a little on the bigger side, 6’4 and 100kg. My GF of 3 days (F20) is the complete opposite, 5’0 and as light as a feather – I can carry her over my shoulder with complete ease. I mention this because since we started having sex, we find that often when we’re in positions where I apply a lot of body pressure on her or just when I’m rough in general, she gets sore down there. I’ve had this before with previous girlfriends/hookups which I always took to be a good sign that I pleased them well sexually, but she’s the first girl who doesn’t like struggling to get up and walk after sex. Granted it’s a little hard to not do this because of the size difference, one thing we tried doing was carryfucking since she’s so easy to pickup, and while it’s really enjoyable for her, I prefer not to stand up. So what do couples do in our situation to makes things easier on the size difference front?
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Lower the horsepower a little bit
Ok slick here’s where you might not be happy with the response.
To clarify. I am 6’1 around 124 kg, lift daily and am 20cm+ by about 17 girth. And my gf is barely 5’0 and petite. ( Asian )
You might be the problem. Guys with larger tools tend to think they just need to show up and act like a jackhammer. Get some technique. Most women don’t want to feel like your trying to drill a hole into their spines.
No, those signs you speak of may not show you did a good job, on the contrary you might have done a bad job. Women have a hard time being honest because they don’t want to upset you. Considering you’ve had this issue with multiple partners, your the common denominator.
Yes, there are women that love that rough treatment but not every woman does.
Don’t blame your size, from your post, you need to maybe ask your gf what she prefers, not what you think she prefers. If your just going in like a pile driver, your doing it wrong most likely.
You got muscles use them to hold your own weight off her. Stop being a literal lazy fuck. Try to actually please your gf and not try to bruise her spine.