Do you come back after an argument in any relationship, or do you expect them to come to you? Why / Why not?

2 comments

1. Depends on the argument.

   I often need time to cool down and think rationally before I can attempt yo reconcile with my other half. Sometimes he’s ready to make the move first, sometimes I do.

   If I know I’m in the wrong I do my utmost to stay out of the way while he cools down and then apologise sincerely when he’s ready.
   Sometimes he kiss kicks in the bedroom door and belly flops into me and tells me to stop been a “MooMoo” and he’s sorry and that he has ordered Chinese takeaway as an apology.

2. Make sure you both are calm and willing to hear eachother out and come up with solutions together to fix whatever problem like adults