hi sorry this is a dumb question but i (17f) was at a party with some people and they let me spend the night on a fold out couch cause i live far away.
they don’t have a/c and it’s really hot in here (naturally they’re aware of this), i’d like to take off my sweater to sleep but i don’t want to make them uncomfortable if they see me in a bra tomorrow morning
and they’re both asleep now so i can’t ask if they’re ok with it
we’re friendly but not extremely close with each other
what should i do?
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You are good as long as you don’t wank.
I’m not a woman, but wouldn’t sleeping in a bra be uncomfortable? Isn’t there metal in the bottom?
in its nature it’s not awkward if any of you don’t make this awkward, it’s hot in there lol. if you are afraid of them seeing you like this you can set alarm to wake up first
Are you using a blanket? They won’t see the bra if you’re under a blanket.
If you are in the living room with just a bra and no blanket it’s not RUDE but it’s not like a super safe choice either. Just push up your sleeves or look for a T-shirt in the clothes dryer or st
All you had to do was ask for a T-shirt,problem solved
Don’t overthink it, like you said they realize it’s hot. Make yourself at home and don’t make things awkward.
Wear a t shirt to bed?