Soo i (M23) went today on a date with a girl (F20) who seemed really nice. We spent about 2 hours talking about different random things trying to get to know each other better; overall I’d say it was a great date.
However, i know I’ll come off as shallow, but to my eyes, she’s not particularly pretty. I guess she’s not my type or what, but to me personally, I can’t find her physically attractive.
Am i an asshole for not wanting to go out with her anymore? I know looks aren’t everything, and i don’t consider myself a movie star either, but is it okay to not want to go out with her anymore? At least as a couple.
Should i just tell her that I’d be down to continue as friends and see how the friendship develops or just turn her down since i know she’s looking for a partner rather than a friend?
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There is NOTHING wrong with not being attracted to someone. You should never feel guilty about that. You should do what YOU want. If you don’t see her romantically, don’t go out with her again. If you want to be with her friend, tell her clearly.
Turn her down, she deserves to be with a guy who likes her.