Hey yall, my gf and I (both 18) recently split up since we are going to different colleges and that she just wouldn’t be able to take it.
She says that we can remain friends and I reluctantly agreed.
Our conversations arent the same as it was (even when it was still in its friendship stage)
Is this friendship over?
Should I tried to have stayed together?
Shes a cool person and after a couple days of contemplating, I can say that I don’t mind being friends, but it seems one sided.
Idk whether I should keep trying to be her friend or drop everything related to her and move on.
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Drop it and move on. “We can still be friends” is a girls way of dumping you slowly. Disconnect. You’re only going to hurt yourself for longer and you don’t mean anything to her at this point.
She’s going to be out of your life if you visit different colleges. Contact with her is going to degrade regardless.
You need to move on as her time and energy will be spent elsewhere. I know it hurts, but you need to start working on your future.