basically i like women but im starting to have creeping gay thoughts about sex with men
something about a man completely submitting to another man just drives me crazy
i fear that the thoughts might get stronger as i age, and i really dont want to be dealing with this years down the line when married with kids
anyone in a similar boat?
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Are you gay?
You could be bisexual. Notba big deal.
Do you feel like you could emotionally connect with a man in a romantic sense?
If you’re gay be gay.
You know just cuz you’re attracted to women doesn’t mean you can’t be attracted to men right? Yeah
What do you have to gain to denying yourself what you desire? I don’t get this mentality at all. I got a thing for big girls, who cares, we like what we like, don’t need rhyme or reason for it, just embrace it and have the experiences you want, therea no good reason why not to.
https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/kinsey-scale.php
Sexual preference is a scale. Not binary, you don’t have to act on it, unless you want to.
But making the thoughts go away, that might be impossible.
My advice just accept the thoughts as okay because they are.
The real question is do you think you would missing out on part of life that you want to explore.
But it sounds like no I don’t wanna explore and I don’t want these thoughts either.