I (31F) had an ongoing casual sex thing with someone (36M) for about 4 years prior to my recent relationship (7 years, 2 kids, emotional abuse).
We’ve (me and ex casual sexer) been chatting on and off for about 6 months. Friday just gone, I suggested that we revisit the old times and he agreed that we definitely should.
I fell asleep mid convo and now I’m hell bent on getting back into bed with this guy. There’s very little emotional attachment but we agreed that we do have great sex.
How do I bring this up again when he hasn’t?!
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its weird to say but you just do. Just say ” Hey remember when we talked about how great our sex was? I really want to do that again. Do you still want to ? ” and go from there.
Simple, just bring it up! If you’re not comfortable doing so, maybe send a pic, or a hint?
be direct and rip the bandaid off
saves everyone time, lets everyone know whats the situation
Simple just say you need help having an orgasm. Lol