My partner and I have been together for 8 years. Our anniversary is actually next month. It’s so crazy to think how far we’ve come to reach the level of comfort we have with each other, especially me. I went from being afraid to say ” I’m on my period” ( to explain why I was hesitant to have sex… I know. So lame and immature) , or not initiating At All……to ” I want to get fucked like this today”. I’m having the most fun, exciting, and mind-blowing orgasms. I know 8 years is a long time but I’ve seen others on here that have waited longer for things to change. I’m so glad that they did because my partner is my best friend so that , on top of our chemistry makes for amazing sex.
We’ve been through hell and back. Mental health issues. Ex- spouse issues. Parenting multiple children. Almost broke up a few times. Just everything really. Even dead bedroom.
One of the things that I’m super grateful for is that we are selfless. We both want to pleasure each other so bad. I get turned on just watching him squirm and then finally cumming inside me. 8/10 I am getting off and other times, I just want to be used by him. It’s great.
If you really love each other, you’ll be patient.
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It’s so nice that you have found groove with your husband. It took me a bit of time and now we couldn’t be happier. I love how well we know each other…what we like, what our boundaries are and how we can push them, how well he knows how to please me and exactly what to do to get me off…
There are people who think that one night stands or cheating is exciting but in my opinion it doesn’t hold a candle to knowing someone inside out. Keep exploring and communicating – the best is yet to come!
This is awesome! Nice work guys. Yeah, communication goes so damn far it’s almost laughable how much better things get with a bit of mature communication and patience. It breeds trust both ways and a safe space to be vulnerable and open to each other about all of the experiences we want.
Great work, I’m happy for you both!