hey all. so im a 21 female who’s never had a boyfriend and it really makes me feel sad and lonely and like there’s something wrong with me. i face some insecurity issues because i have dark skin and a lot of men, black men, in particular in my town are colorist and prefer to be with girls with lighter skin. other than that ive been sexually assaulted multiple times throughout my life starting from the age of 7 so some of my teen years were spent with me being hyper sexual as a means to cope with my trauma. but im in therapy and working but still feel really alone. i go out places alone like the mall, bars etc but either men approach me in a sexual manner or i don’t get approached at all. ive tried celibacy, dating apps are a nightmare and idk i just feel really sad to be alone and never have the experience of being in a relationship. any advice ?