What is your best observation of “body language” in real life, something you’ve learned or read about it, and it’s always true?

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1. The 1000 fap stair. Just watch men. Watch how they look at women in public. Some will look the straight in the eyes and smile in passing. Other will advert their gaze until the woman pass by then turn and leer. They think they are being sneaky but i see them being gross.

2. Grooming. Hair flicking. Neck tilting. Hair bands.

3. I was very lonly as a child so instead of interacting with people I watched them interact with others. I learned a lot and I can also see a lot about people. I run through the city like “This dude was raised very Catholic. This man comes actually from Italy but he lives here already very long and probably has no accent anymore. Oh, that guy over there served in the army.” And sometimes my friends believe I just make it up and even go to these people and ask them. When I was wrong then I never missed by far: “no, I was in the navy.” I also just need 30 mins with a couple to see if this is going to work out in the long term.

   If you want to learn about body language to protect yourself I will give you an advice: trust you intuition. If you feel threatened by a person or feel their not trustworthy and don’t search for a reason or stay with them to be polite. Fuck politeness. You inner voice warns you for a reason. get away. You don’t have to explain it.

4. Which way the feet are pointing, and mirroring.