I legit have TRASH social skills. Every time I try to have a conversation, I would either just give one word answers like “ok, cool, etc.) or try to say something and can’t get any words out that I usually end up saying “never mind”.
I really fucking hate myself for this. I’m in college and having social anxiety is the worst!, I’m afraid of introducing and talking to people, so I don’t really have any new friends in college and I’m really kicking myself for it.
I feel like I REALLY need help
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u could start it w texting so when you do see each other in real life it’ll be easier for you
I am sorry you are going through this – it must be really upsetting. Do you have a family member or friend that can help? If not, and you are struggling in social settings, then I wonder if some kind of professional assistance may be helpful.
Ask questions about them. You’re meeting new people so you could ask where they’re from, what their major is, why they’re into their major, etc.
Some people might feel uncomfortable talking to you, but don’t get discouraged! They probably feel the same way as you do, like they don’t have social skills and are kicking themselves for it.
Sometimes you’ll click with someone and sometimes it’ll be awkward. Just be genuinely interested in other people’s stories and lives.