My boyfriend recently revealed to me he kissed a coworker while I was recovering from spine surgery because “he was drunk and felt lonely”.
I’m so torn on what to do. I love him more than I’ve loved anyone and up until now everything was picture perfect, we had plans to move in together. He’s coming by my place tomorrow to talk things over.
Has anyone experienced something similar and was able to rebuild trust in their partner? I don’t know how to not view everything he does as just repentance for what he did. One part of me doesn’t want to leave because I love him, but the other is so hurt he did this to me at my lowest that idk if I can move forward.
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My ex sexted with his ex early into the relationship and i never got over it, even though i tried. In my experience, i can’t get over it and i would resent this person even after a year. But it depends which kind of person you are. I wouldn’t forgive something like this again.
Edit: also i caught him sexting and buying nudes from women on snapchat after this, at this time he wanted to buy me a ring too and get engaged.
I probably won’t even trust him honestly. Like if he did this over a surgery then what would happen when it’s something worse? Or if y’all have kids in the future and he felt “lonely” because you were busy taking care of his children.
I agree with the above poster it’s dependant on the person you are I know I can hold a grudge and I would definitely resent that in my time of need my SO cheats if I were you. I vote dump them if you think you’re the type of person who won’t forgive an act like this.
No, once the trust is gone it will never be rebuilt. That’s the truth.