I (24 M) recently had a woman tell me that it was cute that I was a virgin. Does this mean she’s hinting that she might want to hook up with me? Do some women find virgins attractive? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

3 comments

  1. I personally see it as a negative thing only because some people can get off on that level of control and experience comparatively to the other person.
    As if they are now in this “powerful” position to make you feel/do things you’ve never done before.
    I’m not sure if shes hinting, but I’m positive she is considering.

    As a women (26) I don’t find it attractive or not, but I do take it seriously if the guy is a virgin because experiencing sex for the first time can be a very vulnerable thing for someone.
    I would suggest you be 100% if you want to go through with it because you don’t know how you’ll emotionally react days or weeks later and you don’t want to set up the sexual part of your life with a bad taste in your mouth.
    Don’t over think it, just take a pause and reflect about how you view sex and what it would mean to you is what I’m saying.

  2. Sounds like she might be interested. You need to decide if you are interested in her.

  3. Definitely women out there who find it attractive, I’m sure same as some guys like knowing the person might not have experience and want to give them something to remember forever, also a proud/flattering moment that they haven’t chosen anyone before you type thing. My husband and I are swingers, and yet the time I was most attracted to a guy in a couple we played with was one who had never had sex except for his wife, so I was about to be his 2nd. People can be weird like that lol

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