My wife (44f) and I (43m) have always had a very active sex life until a couple years ago. Frequently has really dipped off, which I’m fine with; we’re getting older, we’re busy with kids and work, etc. The biggest issue is that we will sometimes have very long stretches in between sexual encounters, and we can have a full hour of foreplay but I will cum almost as soon as penetration occurs. This was never the way it was before. I am undergoing testosterone treatment for low levels, but Im really at a loss for this sudden turn In quick ejaculating.
If anyone has any ideas on how to help, I’m up to try them.
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This happened to me and it was because like you we had infrequent sex and when we did I came so fast cause I was more sensitive. So infrequent sex made me more sensitive down there.. so as our sex life went back up it stopped and I was back to normal.
We (45mf) started going to the gym at 40 and a lot of things improved, including our sex life. Maybe go to the gym together? Be workout buddies?
I will sometimes masturbate earlier in the day when I know im getting lucky to help me last longer.. that may help too