To the people who might have regretted their first experience. How would you choose to lose your virginity? What could have made your experience better?

8 comments

  1. What could have made my experience better?

    A manual 😂.

    But seriously, it’s the most exhilarating experience of your life, but paradoxically you can’t enjoy it to its fullest because you’re so nervous.

  2. > What could have made your experience better?

    Well a different girl if we are being honest.

  3. I had a great connection with my first lady. We remained together for a long time and we had great times together. The sex got better and better. Looking back years later, I would never trade my first no matter how perfect the sex could be with someone else. Just some thoughts about how you may remember your first time years from now.

  4. The only thing I regret is that I “popped my cherry” experimenting. I wish I’d done that with my fiance. I know it’s not a big deal, but it’s an experience I wish I could’ve had.

  5. Having it be my choice in a controlled and safe environment.

    I was raped by my step dad as a child before the age of 3. Because of that, I have extreme vaginismus and an overall fear of intimacy. I’d like to think virginity is a social construct and that I can have an enjoyable first time with my partner, but I definitely beat myself up sometimes for thinking its too late because I had it taken away from me.

  6. Better? The experience i have now would’ve made me a bomb lover. I mean i last a lot longer now than when i first started having sex. 3 minutes to me is rushing it when i know i can do better. I don’t regret who it was with. I don’t regret i did it either. Although i do wonder what my life would look like now if i had stuck to my celibacy before marriage policy

  7. I’d want to lose it to a loving man in a romantic relationship.

  8. A partner where we were both in love with one another and had phenomenal chemistry would certainly have been better.

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