Your girlfriend tells you she’s started working at a strip club… how do you react?

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1. As a stripper/dancer. – for clarification

2. If she didnt talk to me before hand she aint my GF she intentionally hid it and that breaking my trust.

3. Find another girlfriend. You will not be able to deal with knowing she’s going to be grabbed at, stared at and grinding on strangers every night. Just imagine dudes cumming in their pants while your girlfriend is dry-humping his crotch with her thonged ass. Yep, move on.

4. Be honest tell her you’ve been knowing for the past two years that she’s been stripping and thank you for finally coming clean with it

5. Instant break up, like why did you not tell me that before actually working at the strip club

6. Buy her a safe for all the cash.

7. Ask if she’ll start charging me for lap dances.

8. I would like to know why & if there’s any way I can help her financially or find a better paying job for her somehow

   Hell I think onlyfans makes more money & is a much physically safer alternative

9. Proud of her.

10. I would realy have to sit down and set some very concrete boundries associated with that.

    Something along the lines of this:

    1. If you ever get advances from an employer or anyone else with power over your career i expect to know, and for you to bring this up to their boss/the community.

    2. There will be zero “special” proformances where the person you are dancing for is allowed to touch you.

    3. If it is fully nude i am very likely not going to be ok with it, since that leaves nothing that is spacificly for me and you.

    I realy cannot say if i could be ok with this. I would try my best to support my gf in her decisions, but if the motivation is anything but good money i would not be around for too long.

11. Probably have a serious discussion about boundaries.

    Chances are the relationship would probably be over, not only because I don’t want to date somebody in sex work, but also because they made a decision that I’d assume they knew would cause conflict, or make me very uncomfortable without discussing it with me beforehand.

12. Tell her im quiting my job to stay home and she’s going to be my suger mamma.

13. Not for me. Wish you well.

14. If I wanted to date a stripper I would be. That is a pass from me

15. “Awesome! We’ll get to see a lot more of each other!”

16. Well looks like we eating steak tonite…

17. I dated two strippers, but they were already stripping when I met them, and in fact that is how I met them. I had no expectations of monogamy, it was never even discussed. As long as they paid me attention when I came around, it worked out. I was on the road a lot so I didn’t need to be tied down.

    I would imagine it would be different if I had met them before they started, but I’m pretty open minded when it comes to sex. You kind of have to be if you ever want to experience new things like threesomes or have a voyeurism fetish (as in being watched, not spying on people.

    Edit: exhibition fetish was the word I was looking for

18. “I don’t care where you work bitch, just don’t tell my wife we’re fucking”

19. At my age I’d be impressed as fuck that she could get a job at a strip club.

20. Knowing a lot about strip clubs because I used to be in them a lot…She would be an ex.

    There is a lot of drugs, lots of drinking a lot of backroom/meeting up with customers after hours for sex work (prostitution)

    I am not interested in having to wear a condom every time I fuck my girl for STI protection. (Vasectomy so she doesnt need to be on BC).

21. I would leave.

22. My answer would be: my “ex” girlfriend started working at a strip club.

    Do your thing, I’m just not a fan of other men groping my woman and taking her into VIP.

23. As long as she doesn’t tell my wife, we cool.

24. I’d say good fucking luck. We’re down to 1 strip bar in my city – which has no cities nearby.

    I know the taste of the owner and the type of girls he usually gets.

25. So you’re breaking up with me to be a stripper and in a really weird way?

26. I wouldn’t be ok with that, this is borderline sex work and I’m not ok with her grinding on strangers for money

27. End the relationship

28. She’s crossing a line. If she is going to be a stripper, I’m going to work at a sex shop.

29. That’s not my girlfriend anymore.

30. Break up.

31. Dated 2 strippers throughout my life, it’s fun for like a month, then the issues shine brighter than the stage lights.

32. I’ve dated a stripper.

    Fun stuff.

    I’d be ok w it as long as she was safe. I’d be up front that if she put herself in iffy situations I’d probably break up.

    Don’t want to be worried about the safety stuff.

33. I’m too insecure for something like that just being honest I wouldn’t want men constantly looking at her I’d be stressed 24/7 plus if she didn’t talk to me before hand that’s a bit fucked I’d talk to her if I was going to take a new job that didn’t require me to get naked so…

34. I’m a little self conscious, and if my girlfriend is not, then awesome. But I don’t think I could handle other men looking at her. Her body, her choice. Though it would be my choice to break up with her.

35. She wouldn’t be my girlfriend anymore.

36. Later!

37. Good luck with your next relationship.

38. I start aggressively farting

39. Im now single lol

40. Instant break up!
    I like my women like I like my coffee.. Without other people’s dick in it

41. See ya!

42. Ask her when I’m getting my cut.

43. “Don’t let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.”

    Strippers are for fun. Not for taking home. At any time. Ever. They’re all broken, like porn stars.

44. Not living together? Wish her the best, block and ghost.

    Living together? When she leaves, move her shit into storage, have the key delivered, again wish her the best and block and ghost, have the locks changed.

    Why? Because she didn’t respect me or our relationship enough to have a conversation first. If she didn’t respect me enough to discuss it first, then I have no faith she will not lie to me later or consider our relationship a priority for her.

45. Tell her Dad he failed.

46. Pretend that I am in a relationship with her still, manipulating her to have sex with other women together, proposing to do only fans for money as well. , etc.
    A bitch needs an asshole.