I had an online friend who became my best friend, and then a girlfriend. Then we fell apart and stopped talking, I caught her lies.
We talked online chats and calls for 1.5 years, everyday like 6-7 hours a day, and shared everything. I never met her. We even made a plan to meet but then she denied it because she was afraid that her family would find out (she was 22 years old and I am 24) and since then we started falling apart and I caught some of her lies, which she never accepted when I confronted.
It’s been 2 months since it all got over but I can’t move on in my life. I think of her all the time. How do I deal with this and forget her?
Edit:- That* I never met (typo in title)
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Honestly time, time heals all wounds. But dont ignore the feelings, try to process how your feeling it and why your feeling it. So you know what not to do next time
tbh online relationships are a complete waste of time.
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And yes, I’ll die on this hill.
cherish the journey, not the result.
Be careful with whom you choose to spend time with
I’d try and think of it as gaining experience. At 24 you have plenty more opportunities to meet people and have relationships. This one will eventually dim in your memory. You’ll learn from this, about yourself as well as about other people.
I know this isn’t much use rn, things like what you’re going through hurt like hell. I speak from experience.